Every Day Is Mother’s Day: Love Her While You Can
There’s something sacred about the way a mother loves. It’s often quiet, sometimes fierce, and always deep. A mother’s presence—her voice, her warmth, her guidance—is a gift we don’t always realize we’re unwrapping every single day. But as time gently teaches us, we begin to understand: the moments we get with our moms are fleeting. And precious. So very precious.
Mother’s Day may come once a year, but the truth is, every day is an opportunity to celebrate our moms—to hug them a little tighter, to say “thank you” a little louder, and to spend time simply being with them.
For Those Who Still Have Their Moms
If your mom is still here—whether near or far—cherish her. Call her unexpectedly. Bring her flowers on a random Tuesday. Write her a note that starts with, “I don’t say this enough, but…” and let it pour out. You don’t need a holiday to remind her she matters.
Here are a few thoughtful things to do with or for your mom—on Mother’s Day or any day:
- Take her out to lunch or brunch, just because. No reservations needed—just your time and attention.
- Go on a walk together. Whether it’s through a park or around the neighborhood, side-by-side steps make for heart-to-heart conversations.
- Cook her a meal. It doesn’t have to be fancy. Just something made with love and maybe a little laughter.
- Create a “just because” spa day. Foot soaks, her favorite candle, a calming playlist, and a quiet space to relax.
- Ask her questions about her life. Not just the “how are you?” but “what was your favorite memory growing up?” or “what did you dream about when you were younger?”
- Write her a letter. Emails and texts are quick, but a handwritten letter? That’s a keepsake.
- Help her with small things she always puts off. Hanging that picture frame, sorting out her photos, setting up her favorite playlist on her phone—these small acts speak volumes.
- Take photos with her. Not just posed ones—candid ones. Laughing, cooking, sitting on the porch. You’ll treasure them later more than you know.
For Those Who’ve Lost Their Moms
To those who no longer have their moms here physically, my heart is with you. The grief of that loss is a quiet, lifelong ache—but it’s also a reminder of the love that was. The memories don’t fade. If anything, they shine brighter with time.
Your way of celebrating Mother’s Day, or any day, might look different—but it’s just as meaningful:
- Light a candle in her honor.
- Cook one of her favorite recipes and savor the memories that come with each bite.
- Look through old photos or videos and let yourself feel. Laugh. Cry. Remember.
- Write her a letter. Tell her about your life, your growth, your pain, and your joy.
- Do something she used to love doing. Whether it’s gardening, baking, or listening to a certain artist—connect with her through shared experiences.
- Pass her love forward. Volunteer, mentor, or care for someone else the way she cared for you.
A Gentle Reminder
Time has a way of moving quietly, almost invisibly. One day, we’re holding our mother’s hand in the store, and the next we’re holding it in a hospital room—or wishing we could hold it at all.
So if you can, take the time. Make the time. Not just on Mother’s Day, but on the days that follow and the days in between. Let your love be loud. Let it be known.
Because our moms aren’t just worth celebrating one day a year.
They’re always worth celebrating.
So go ahead—make today a Mother’s Day.
Cheers to Mom!